“Healing may not be so much about getting better, as about letting go of everything that isn’t you – all of the expectations, all of the beliefs – and becoming who you are.” ~Rachel Naomi Remen
I love this quote; I think it speaks to what our work here at Holistic Health Practice is all about…. and it reminds me of a story:
Upon observing the finished statue of David, an awed patron asked Michelangelo how he had managed to get that perfect male form out of the marble. Michelangelo looked confused, but replied, “I just took away everything that WASN’T David.”
I’m pretty clear that most likely, nothing of the kind ever took place – but I love this story anyway. It drives home that, in striving for personal growth, we’re not looking for an elusive intangible something that will make our lives meaningful; we’re looking for what we already have. Becoming the wise, beautiful, amazing creatures we are meant to be is simply a case of surrendering all the survival tactics we’ve adopted and all the various personas we’ve pasted on, leaving nothing but what is really, truly, authentically US.
Kinda like stripping the linoleum off the kitchen floor and finding gorgeous hardwood underneath… ; )
As HHP Founder Kurt Hill likes to say, “we’re already there waiting for ourselves to show up.”
For me, it’s a relief… being me is what I was born to do – and while it’s scary at times (and I certainly don’t do it perfectly) – it still takes a whole lot less energy to be me than to try to be anyone else…
It’s not about being better; it’s about being.